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The internet can teach you so much. There are so many resources you can use. If you honestly research whatever it is you're wanting to succeed at and put the effort into your work, there is no way you should fail.
I've been researching, second guessing myself , starting over , procrastinating , flipping ideas , going crazy trying to implement EVERYTHING ( my hobbies became my passions ) into one business move. I have started multiple different endeavors that all corrolate pretty much around the same industry.
I've been talking to my family and friends about it for years. It doesn't happen overnight. I have a few people I consider not only friends but mentors. Those who have already experienced what I am wanting to accomplish.

I have always been about collaboration over competition because I am a firm believer that there's enough money and success out here for everyone and we should all be encouraging each other instead of at each others throats. I have never been a hater. Anything someone has or does that I want or I am interested, I take the steps so that I can get it. Anything you want is in your reach and yes sometimes it takes you a little longer than others to get there. YOU have your own journey and you have to become one with yourself to figure out exactly what that is.

There will always be nay sayers, people who secretly want to see you fail that call themselves your friends, people who will copy your dreams, etc.. Push them to the side, you don't need that negativity! Do not stoop to their level. Do not feed into their shade. Remind yourself " I do not need to dim anyone else's light in order for me to shine! "

Don't let anyone tell you NO , or that you won't make it, or can't do it. If you ever feel like giving up, talk to your closet friends, your significant other, family, gurus of whatever interest you have. Listen to positive, motivating, and business savvy podcasts. Create a space where you can meditate and reflect and work.

I promise you got this babe. Tell them that you've arrived and you ain't never going no where
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       Ya'll I'm trying but dating, talking, getting to know someone ( or whatever you prefer to call the stage before you're in an actual "committed" or "exclusive" relationship ) is a pain in the ass sometimes. Skkkrrrrt! Before you say anything about "girl, just focus on yourself and your own happiness and it'll come" just know I am always focusing on myself.  *rolls eyes* It is completely okay to focus on one self but still meet new people, feel them out, become FRIENDS and see if something more blossoms from that or if you just meet a really good new friend all while focusing on your career, family, etc .. If you feel like this person is a distraction from focusing on yourself, then they aren't right for you anyways because friends or someone who could potentially be more than a friend, wouldn't want to deter you from shining ( mhmm ) Work hard girl, play later!

    Anywho, I just don't get the process these days. Why can't we just hang out and kick it and if something becomes of it FUCKING AWESOME.. These corny ass lines and game that these guys try to come with is getting real tired. I just want someone to be real with me. Oh, lets not forget the disgusting, disrespectful guys. What women are out there entertaining y'all nonsense to the point where you think you can step to me and say the shit you say and get some play? Are y'all really that ignorant? Or have you just never been told that ya tactics aren't cutting it? I need some answers.

Oh look I just got a text..
      *unlocks phone*

     SCRUB (After hanging out in a group setting ONE time) : When you gonna get up with me alone? You be playing Naee.. I'm trying to feel on that booty *😏*

     ME: Read at 8:44PM *😒*

AT THAT MOMENT... YOU SHOULD'VE KNOWN YOU FUCKED UP!


     Blocccckedtttt. 

Its a turn off , damn .. are y'all getting that yet?
I'm out. 

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                I feel like I've lost my connection doing a lot of things that I really used to enjoy doing . I believe its because I was so lost and always about the person I was in a relationship with. I feel like I put the things that I wanted to do and dreams on hold because I wanted to make sure I was supporting my significant other with their endeavors. Once the relationship was over I begin to actually realize that I had to build myself back up and get back to being me. I can't believe it was so easy for me to get lost in my relationship the way that I did. Just my opinion, but it seems like females are always constantly trying to prove that they are worth it. You have to know how to cook, clean, give your man bomb ass sex, support his dreams, always be on your toes and be a crying shoulder when he comes home wanting to vent to you about his day. That's not even everything expected of you and how dare you not have all of your shit together! 

When the shoe was on the other foot and I needed him to provide me with the same, he fell short. I realized I was with someone who was about themselves and only worried about shit that concerned them. I began to feel neglected in the relationship but continued to stay and tried to work on it because I also didn't want to be a quitter. I wanted to know that I attempted to do everything I could before I just said fuck all of this. Of course, the selfishness and the verbal abuse was too much for me and once priorities start getting all fucked up, I knew it was time to let go. 

Welp, BIH YOU GUESSED IT ! *lol* That relationship has been dead, its a year later and I'm glad to say I've learned so much about myself in this time. I've grown so much and I have definitely realized how much more my worth is. I've reconnected with good friends, start rebranding myself and I began to act on all the business plans I had. A lot of new opportunities have been brought to be and I feel so blessed.  It is very important to take care and love yourself before you try to take care of and love someone else. Whether you have a relationship or friendship with someone make sure you take the time out to still #loveyourself. What are some things you have went through that made you realize your worth? What are some hobbies that interest you that you can do alone, have 'me' time, and clear your mind? 
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Congratulations Taya!! I love you <3
Ok ok, we're sorry we know we got you all excited about our launch and disappeared on you. But, if it counts for anything we both individually have been working on some exciting projects that will be announced relatively soon. Besides working my ass off planning these projects and being apart of different meetings  I went to visit my hometown for my little sister's graduation. It had been two years since I'd been home. Although I didn't stay too long ( cause its boring as hell in Buffalo to me now ) I did enjoy seeing some old friends and my family. Ya'll know I love food right? I swear my mission the whole trip was to make sure I had some REAL pizza and Buffalo wings .. did I get any? HELL NO and I was so mad but I was so busy running around with little sis I didn't have the time.  I didn't want to leave my sister, Taya. I cried like a big ol baby when I got to the airport. I guess I'm used to seeing her several time a year, so two years was way too long. Never again will I wait too long to visit. I cannot believe my baby is going to college! New York City ain't ready for her :)


So, I got you caught up a little on why I've been M.I.A and I promise to never keep you waiting again. I must confess, I had a little bit of writer's block or blogger block too. I have tons of things to post about but sometimes I can't put it all together the way I'd like to. Any who, we're back and its time to gear up for my birrrrrthhhhhhdaaaaaay *twerks with my tongue out* !!!! LOL.




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Hey! Welcome to Not Enough Coffee, a lifestyle, beauty, and fashion blog for millenials, a place to kick up your feet and relax or sip your coffee and learn more about branding yourself and bettering your blog! My name is NAEE and I am the creator/head editor.


This is TAYA. Yes, she is really my little sister and she's NEC's Beauty & Fashion contributor. Learn more about your favorite bloggers (here).

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